Frequently Asked Questions




Do we get to choose our new son or daughter?

Our AFS team will do its best to find someone compatible with your family's interests, personalities and way of life.

If you are interested in a particular nationality, put this information on your Hosting a Student Form. AFS will look first at the students from that country and try to suit your preference. You may indicate whether you would prefer a boy or a girl. You can also view current students looking for hosts here.

AFS has a comprehensive selection and preparation process which ensures students with the right attitude come to New Zealand. Qualities we look for in students include flexibility,self-confidence, the ability to mix well with others, a willingness to learn, an interest in other cultures and acceptance of others.




What happens if we don't get along?

Our volunteers have considerable experience in placing students with families and carefully meeting the needs of both families and students.However, if a problem arises, your Support Coordinator is there to help you. If the problem can't be resolved, or there is a crisis within your family, AFS will move the student to a new family.




Do we get paid for hosting?

Our host families welcome AFS students into their home as one of their own children and are not paid for offering this experience. Host parents often say they don't want to be paid to be a parent. AFS students are not guests. They are part of the family and are treated as such.




What happens during school holidays?

During school holidays host students fit in with normal family life.However AFS-chaperoned bus trips may be organised and students are expected to participate in community service projects during their stay.These projects are often undertaken during school holidays.